Julysnight
Rough_Rock
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- Oct 2, 2013
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I think my SO will be proposing soon. Maybe it's just wishful thinking but I have this feeling that it is coming soon.
The problem is that it is just a feeling. He has not taken me ring shopping, has not asked me what type of rings I like, has not had the opportunity to ask any of my friends what I would like, and even if he had asked them, they don't have any idea what I would like either. I also don't wear any rings, so I doubt he even knows my size.
Last night I started thinking, what if he totally surprises me and buys a ring without my input? This is something i can see him doing. Best case scenario is that he picks something amazing or picks the safe route and gets me a classic solitaire. Worst case scenario is that he spends a lot of money on something that is not my style, something I would never pick. What would you do? What is the best way to handle this? Do I stay silent and accept it because he picked it? Do I wait a couple of days and sweetly tell him that I love that he surprised me but the ring is not my style. I don't want to upgrade later. I want the same ring I wear while engaged to be the ring I get married with.
I just want to add that no matter what he gives me the day he proposes, I know that day will be one of the happiest days of my life.I can't wait to share that moment and my life with him. Nevertheless, I want to have a ring that fits me and my personality. I'm a lil worried and I feel like I screwed up by not saying something sooner. I should have dropped hints. I'm such a romantic I thought this would work out perfectly. I thought he would eventually start asking me questions.We have such a great relationship I didn't put too much thought into the ring. Now that I have the feeling a proposal is coming soon, I'm getting anxious.
The problem is that it is just a feeling. He has not taken me ring shopping, has not asked me what type of rings I like, has not had the opportunity to ask any of my friends what I would like, and even if he had asked them, they don't have any idea what I would like either. I also don't wear any rings, so I doubt he even knows my size.
Last night I started thinking, what if he totally surprises me and buys a ring without my input? This is something i can see him doing. Best case scenario is that he picks something amazing or picks the safe route and gets me a classic solitaire. Worst case scenario is that he spends a lot of money on something that is not my style, something I would never pick. What would you do? What is the best way to handle this? Do I stay silent and accept it because he picked it? Do I wait a couple of days and sweetly tell him that I love that he surprised me but the ring is not my style. I don't want to upgrade later. I want the same ring I wear while engaged to be the ring I get married with.
I just want to add that no matter what he gives me the day he proposes, I know that day will be one of the happiest days of my life.I can't wait to share that moment and my life with him. Nevertheless, I want to have a ring that fits me and my personality. I'm a lil worried and I feel like I screwed up by not saying something sooner. I should have dropped hints. I'm such a romantic I thought this would work out perfectly. I thought he would eventually start asking me questions.We have such a great relationship I didn't put too much thought into the ring. Now that I have the feeling a proposal is coming soon, I'm getting anxious.