Rich Bride, Poor Bride
Click to view full-size image.
Related topics
- Anyone watch "Rich Bride, Poor Bride"?
- Bride/Bride family paying for groom''s parents'' hotel?
- First Dance Songs - Father of the Bride/ Bride ?
- Nice and rich or ZaZING! and poor.
- Opinions to a 2nd time bride from a 2nd time bride??
- Old Bride Needs Help
- So. Cal Bride...
- Here comes the bride....
- soon to be bride??
- New Bride Here
|
|
|
|
by Independent Gal » October 26th, 2007, 7:37 am
Hey Bubbly, you know your trip to Sandals will cost a pretty penny, right? And it''s mostly the reception that costs money, so even if you go to the Justice of the Peace, throwing a ''huge party'' is going to be pricey!
But there are lots of ways to cut your costs (second hand or sample dresses, DIY invitations, having a brunch instead of dinner - or not serving a meal at all, ipod instead of DJ, severely limiting the guest list, not having favours, etc.) , and when you get to the BIW board, we''ll be able to help you! But if you want any kind of ''huge party'', it will be hard to get away with less than $5000. That''s about the minimum, I''d guess. But it can certainly be done for that much. Maybe cheaper if you make people pay for their own drinks (if that flies where you live). So, start saving! |
|
|
|
|
All weddings are too expensive for one day. That''s what I hate most about them. And most of the cost and pomp & circumstance is for the guests anyway. My budget is small and I''m working hard to keep it that way. Yes, I watch those shows but I try not to take them too seriously because even though I''d love to blow my life savings on a lavish party for me and my fiance, when I really think about it - it''s a big freaking waste.
|
That''s when you call... theflowerexchange! Callas for ALL! 
|
|
|
|
Hey Bubbly1126,
That''s exactly what we''re going to do. Just the two of us. I was looking into the Sandals resorts as well. I don''t think they''re that expensive. We want an all inclusive resort. Drinks $$$. (are included). Well I need to take the two of us back. My parents would want to go. So maybe the 4 of us. who knows. He would really want just us both. I agree with what you said. Why spend all this $$$ for people to criticize something about the wedding. We will say "I do" and then enjoy our honeymoon. Great minds think alike. 
|
|
|
|
|
I took a peek out of curiosity (hey, we have a honeymoon to plan!) and the cheapest Sandals room I saw in LOW season (October) is $2700 + taxes (so, probably $3000-3300) for the week. then figure about $1200 in airfare, taxis, passport updates (if you need ''em) etc.. Plus your dress, shoes, etc and his suit. If your parents go with you, triple that. And suddenly, you''re back to a $10K wedding. $5K if it''s just you two!
Just sayin, start savin''! |
|
|
|
|
Yeah, Independent Gal, I get what you''re saying.
However, I can surely justify 5K on the two of us for a week or so but in my mind, there is no way I could ever justify 5K+ on one day. lol. Call me cheap. I don''t care (lol) but it''s just not worth it to me. I''d rather put that money towards just us and a honeymoon. It won''t be for another 2+ years or so but yes, we do have to start saving! And louisvgirl, I agree. Great minds do think alike! 
|
|
|
|
|
Oh, and as for a party with all our friends, we have a hall that is always available to us. It''s part of a yacht club that all the men in his family are members of and it would be perfect for a "party" to celebrate with friends. Also, alcohol is included in the very very low price to rent the hall.
|
|
|
|
|
Yeah 5k is 5k....but I too can justify spending that kind of money on a full week . 10k in Atlantis....that place looks beautiful.. I know someone who has been there 3 times, and has traveled to many beautiful places,,but Atlantis is her top pick..BUBBLY1126 What I have found out is that, sometimes you can book as LITTLE as 2-3 months in advance on someone else''s cancellation, and get up to half off!! We were planning on June 2008, but have decided to wait until March or April to see if we can get some sort of deal. I can not justify spending 25K on one day. I''d rather have that $$$ on my left hand...now that would go a long way!
|
|
|
|
|
Yes, each to their own! For us, our thinking was that we can take a romantic holiday any time, but the only time in your life that all of the people you love can be persuaded to gather in one room is your wedding day. So we decided to blow the money on showing our loved ones a good time, instead of keeping all the fun to ourselves.
 But this is definitely less of an issue if you live close to your friends and family in the first place. Ours are scattered in every corner of the world, so this really is a once in a lifetime thing, and to us, it feels like money very well spent. NB, LouisV, they also offer 50% if you book early, and then you don't have to worry about not getting a cancellation. Given that when / where I looked everything was sold out for a year or so, it seems that might be the safer option! You can't count on a cancellation, or on YOU being the ones who would GET the cancelled spot! |
|
|
|
|
I''ve been married a while. I know one thing that drove up our budget was the thought that people were coming from very far away and spending a lot on their flights and accomodations, so we wanted to make the party fun and worth the trip. To me that meant good food, drinks and music, so that''s where we put our budget to work for us. Even though everyone should be coming to support the couple no matter what, I didn''t want people to feel like the trip wasn''t worth it.
|
