WeightLifterChick
Rough_Rock
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- Oct 22, 2007
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For all of you ladies that are either recently engaged or patiently waiting
The reason I ask is that I'm getting weird vibes from my mom and my grandmother. As some of you know re: my first thread here, BF of 5+ years and I are taking a trip to Washington, DC, in December. Not only that, but the holidays are coming up
The other day, I was (once again, argh!) analyzing the situation with my mom, whether or not it could possibly happen on the trip, etc. In the middle of my lamenting, she goes, "You're going to ruin it!" and I said, "Huh???" to which she replied, "You're going to ruin it. Just stop. Wait and see what happens on the trip."
Just for information's sake, my mom has always been very realistic when it comes to these issues. In the past, when I have mentioned that maybe X instance is when BF would propose, she would always say, "Don't get your hopes up." So I was a bit thrown off by her response above. She then kinda switched the topic.
Today I met mom and grandma for lunch. My grandpa is in the hospital, so we're trying to spend a lot of time together and talk about positive things when we can. My grandma said today, "Oh, let's talk about your wedding plans!" because she knows that BF and I want to get married in a private ceremony on the beach, Caribbean destination, yadda yadda. I said sarcastically, "What wedding? The proposal isn't even coming anytime soon." My grandma said, "Well, you never know..." I mentioned that I had snooped a bit (I'm terrible, I know) and my mom goes, "That's not a good idea, I wouldn't do that."
So, obviously this has me confused a bit. IF (and only if) my mom knew anything about any type of plans, she would have heard them from BF's mom. He would only tell his parents, if he were to tell anyone at all. He knows I am a snoop, so if a ring had been or will be purchased, there's a big chance that it will be sent to his parents' house. But somehow I'm getting weird vibes from my family. I haven't talked to his mom in a couple of weeks, so I wouldn't know if she is acting any different unless I see or talk to her.
How many of you ladies think that your SO would say something to family members about upcoming proposal plans? Did they drop hints or anything, or did you get any weird vibes from family members who knew when you talked about getting engaged, etc?
I know I'm looking way too much into this