6 months to go?!?!?!
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Equ, one of my favorite PSers, if you lived near me I''d throw a darn party for you (and I''ve never been an LIW!!). I so admire how you''ve handled the last few years of your life, you are such a champion! Enjoy every minute of those butterfiles, they can be so darn fun when things are just right (and it sounds like they are!!).
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Thanks, Heather! After going through all of the engagement ring hoopla before, my tastes are much more defined now. He''s gonna have it easy.
Thank you so much, Kim, you are such a sweetheart! I can''t take all the credit for the past year or so, I have an amazing support system in place with my family and friends. They are really the people who deserve to take a bow! I say we throw a party anyway. I love parties. Can we do an 80s theme?
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It's so true though! You are one of PS's gentle souls, and I well remember your recent trials, so I do think you certainly deserve the good relationship that you're now in. And thanks for The Demon's pic comment. A few more days and he goes back to his normal self for the season. BTW, are you going to *share* what's going into this magic ring idea envelope with us? 
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Awww, you make me blush... OF COURSE you guys all get in on the magic envelope contents!  I am leaning towards some kind of solitaire with surprise diamonds at this time, but that may change as I begin to create the "Bling Book" for my BF. I definitely know it won''t look like my old e-ring (for obvious reasons).  Pic of former bling for reference:
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80''s themed it shall be! I''ll break out the Pat Benetar gloves, you don the neon leggings. Seriously, I know how wonderful it is to have a support system of family and friends who love you so much; but they love you and support you because you are so great. Enjoy this time!!! |
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KimH - Fresh outta neon leggings, but I''ll rock a Go Go''s t-shirt with you!
Thanks so much Charger!  You guys are all so very kind.Hee hee, I''ve been procrastinating on cleaning up around the condo today to work on the "Bling Book" for BF. He''s getting a lot of great stuff in here, 4 Cs info, my preferences, websites to find stones, and tons of gorgeous photos, including:Vatche X Prong (with a snapshot of Ellen''s solitaire) Vatche Royal Crown Vatche Swan MM Flame Matatora''s Lockes solitaire WF Legato Sleek WF Harmony (with a snapshot of LynnB''s fishtail ring) |
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Ok, the book is done and ready to give to the BF, at which point everything is left up to him. This is so exciting. I''ve barely done anything all day, other than work on this.
 What he is getting is a blue three prong folder emblazoned with the title "Bling Book" across the front. Inside, I''ve written a cute introduction about us as a couple (I know, you''re all gagging, way too mushy) and given him three sections of information: Buying a Diamond, Choosing a Setting, and The Proposal. He has complete documentation of my preferences and lots of pictures to help him out. I feel 110% comfortable leaving everything in his hands like this. I''ve attached a screen capture of my favorite page. 
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Thanks, bee! You are such a sweetie! I hope he doesn''t open this thing and run screaming for the hills!
Miscka: I don''t mind sharing details at all! It was about 15 pages  but I think I gave him a great start and covered every little detail he might need to know when he begins the process. Let me give you a basic rundown of what you see there above...Part 1 - Buying a Diamond includes: -my preferred shape with a photo -links to Good Old Gold and Pricescope tutorials on the 4 Cs -what I feel is most important in the 4 Cs (I ranked them Cut, Color, Clarity, Carat) with more detailed specs on what I want him to look for and what the best buys are -page on diamond grading reports that will hopefully steer him towards a certed AGS/GIA stone -some info on where to buy a stone, including links to Whiteflash, Excel Diamonds, and Good Old Gold -a link to the Rocky Talk forum in case he wants additional help from awesome, knowledgeable people (I warned him to let me know if he is going to start posting there, I don''t want to ruin the surprise of my life!) Part 2 - Choosing a Setting includes: -important personal specs: white gold, ring size 7.5, band 2.5 to 3 mm wide, no knife edge, six prongs preferred on simple settings, no side stones but stones on the head are okay -inspiration pictures from various designers and websites, with website links and pricing info if available (I also made little arrows and notes that pointed out what I liked the most about each setting, in case he wants to go custom and have something made that combines my favorite parts of these rings) -what NOT to buy page that shows a pic of my previous e-ring Part 3 - The Proposal includes: -not much advice here other than no public scoreboards or Jumbotrons and no restaurants -I asked him to ask my parents before he puts his proposal plan in motion because they would appreciate that show of respect, especially since they are going to be paying for a portion of any future wedding (their address and phone numbers are tucked in the back pocket of the folder) -lastly, I wrote some sweet things about how I am looking forward to making a life together and wished him good luck! Hope that helps, Miscka! I think if you are very specific about what you do and do not want (i.e. DO buy a stone that is between __ and __ in color/clarity/carat weight, DON''T buy a setting with this on it, etc.) and add some helpful pictures, you''ll have your man off and running.
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UPDATE:
After BF arrived at my condo last night and settled in to spend a few days with me, I told him I had made him something. I reminded him of the "envelope" he wanted and showed him the Bling Book, explaining that I had taken the time to make it for him now because later on, when school is busy and my masters classes are in full swing, I wouldn''t be able to produce something like this. I handed the folder to him and braced myself for a reaction... He laughed. And he got a sh*t-eating grin on his face! He loved it! When it finally hit me that he liked it and he hadn''t made a mad dash to the door, I read him my introduction and flipped through the pages of the book with him. He was most impressed with the time and effort that went into making the book for him. He actually said he was bummed that he couldn''t show the folder around without people questioning our sanity. Most couples don''t talk about getting engaged when they are only five months in, but things are different with us. As I told him, I wanted to give him all the tools he needed to select a ring that I would love 30 years from now as much as the moment he places it on my finger. He was truly happy about the book and once he is done remodeling the rental he is currently working on, he says he''ll be on to the ring project. We even talked a bit more about diamonds and rings at dinner! In his words, no relationship he''s ever been in has ever felt this "complete" for him, even after a few years, and he''s really looking forward to everything that 2008 will hold for us. He spent the rest of the evening in a very cuddly mood, so I''d say that the Bling Book got the response I hoped it would get. I''m making him a romantic NYE dinner tonight with a roast chicken, so that should also help (Engagement Chicken, lol). Miscka, good luck with your own version of this project.
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haha I remember the "engagement chicken" . It sounds like 2008 will be a great year for the two of you!
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Hahaha, well, this isn''t a true Engagement Chicken recipe, but I figured it wouldn''t hurt anything to make him a nice meal. BF already raves about my cooking and eats anything I put in front of him.
I was cleaning out the freezer and decided to do a lemon pepper roast chicken in the slow cooker today. It''s got butter, thyme, and lemon pepper seasoning in a butter rub under the breast skin, there is a whole lemon inside it, and it''s marinating in more lemon pepper seasoning and lemon juice. Salad, baked potatoes, and mixed fruit on the side - MMMMMM!
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Hahaha, I won''t tell you how tender and delicious the chicken turned out, then! It literally fell apart when I tried to take it out of the cooker. SO good.I am feeling a bit sick, so we just stayed in and toasted at home with Dick Clark and some sparkling wine. We almost missed the ball drop, though, because... we were looking at diamonds. LOL! BF says he is more "worried" about picking the right setting than the stone, now - I showed him some 4 Cs info and as an engineer he seems to really get how all of that works. I offered to help him with more setting pics and links if needed.Happy New Year!
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Thanks, Selkie. I don''t think I ever posted a photo of the cover of the Bling Book...
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