Post by LeslieD » December 10th, 2008, 9:41 am
Hi everybody.  I''m a first-time poster, but I''ve been reading a lot at this site since I started shopping around for an engagement ring about a month ago and I''ve found a lot of great information here, so I thought maybe I could get some help with my dilemma.  (I hope I''m posting this in the appropriate forum; I apologize if I''m not!)

After giving it a lot of thought, I decided to opt for gemstone rather than diamond because at the end of the day, I''m just not a "diamond" kind of girl.  They''re beautiful, but just not for me.  I''ve chosen aquamarine as my center stone (which holds a special significance because it is my boyfriend''s birthstone.)  I''ve looked at a lot of platinum rings since they don''t contain nickel, but couldn''t find any that I loved, and most were outside of our budget.  Then this weekend I found the PERFECT aquamarine ring with diamond accents.  It''s exactly what I pictured, but it''s white gold, and the seller confirmed that it does contain a "small amount" of nickel (and as anyone with a nickel allergy can tell you, the amount doesn''t matter.  If it''s got it, it''s got it.)

I have my heart set on this ring, and I don''t know what to do.  I was wondering if there are any techniques that jewelers can use for a situation like this.  Perhaps some sort of coating on the ring so the metal doesn''t come in direct contact with the skin?  With other jewelery, I can usually cover it with clear nail polish and that works fine, but for a ring I''m going to wear on a daily basis I''m not sure that would be the best thing.  Has anyone else had to deal with this problem?  Is there anything that can be done, or do I need to just keep looking?  Any help would be much appreciated!