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Ideal_Rock
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Hi everyone,
DH and I adopted a puppy, Phinney, 1.5 years ago and she is currently the love of our lives and is very spoiled. She is a very sweet, loving creature and is very friendly to all people. She's actually TOO friendly as she will try to greet anyone that passes her on the street and will jump up sometimes. We've been through at least 3 training classes together (pre-school, kindergarten, middle school) together but she has poor impulse control when it comes to jumping up and greeting. We use rewards-based training methods on her and don't ever hit or punish her with violence (and will never do so).
She's a medium-sized dog (30 lbs). She is crate-trained but she has been sleeping in our bed for the last few months. We hope she will continue to be in our bed as we don't plan on putting the human baby in our bed ever (I do not plan on co-sleeping).
DH and I are currently expecting our first child in early Feb 2015. I wasn't worried about how Phinney would interact with our child because she's never been possessive of any of her food or toys or mean towards anyone. You can take away her food or treat or toy while she's eating or playing and she won't even growl, she'll either move on or wait for you to give it back. When you stick a finger in her mouth while playing tug, she will let go and drop the toy immediately - actually she will drop anything that's in her mouth as soon as she feels contact with fingers. She's never been snippy and is very gentle when she takes treats. However, my SIL has been repeatedly mentioning that Phinney will get jealous of the baby and be mean to him/her. She's talked about it enough that my DH and I have gotten a little worried (we were never concerned before).
I've read up on how to prepare dog for baby, but do you any of you BTDT-parents have any tips on what worked for you? Please don't suggest any methods that involve hitting her or using any electric collars or prong collars.
Just to be clear, we are NOT planning on getting rid of our dog. We just want to prepare ourselves in the best possible way so the situation will work smoothly. Adding a new baby to our lives is stressful enough as it is!
Thanks in advance for the advice!
DH and I adopted a puppy, Phinney, 1.5 years ago and she is currently the love of our lives and is very spoiled. She is a very sweet, loving creature and is very friendly to all people. She's actually TOO friendly as she will try to greet anyone that passes her on the street and will jump up sometimes. We've been through at least 3 training classes together (pre-school, kindergarten, middle school) together but she has poor impulse control when it comes to jumping up and greeting. We use rewards-based training methods on her and don't ever hit or punish her with violence (and will never do so).
She's a medium-sized dog (30 lbs). She is crate-trained but she has been sleeping in our bed for the last few months. We hope she will continue to be in our bed as we don't plan on putting the human baby in our bed ever (I do not plan on co-sleeping).
DH and I are currently expecting our first child in early Feb 2015. I wasn't worried about how Phinney would interact with our child because she's never been possessive of any of her food or toys or mean towards anyone. You can take away her food or treat or toy while she's eating or playing and she won't even growl, she'll either move on or wait for you to give it back. When you stick a finger in her mouth while playing tug, she will let go and drop the toy immediately - actually she will drop anything that's in her mouth as soon as she feels contact with fingers. She's never been snippy and is very gentle when she takes treats. However, my SIL has been repeatedly mentioning that Phinney will get jealous of the baby and be mean to him/her. She's talked about it enough that my DH and I have gotten a little worried (we were never concerned before).
I've read up on how to prepare dog for baby, but do you any of you BTDT-parents have any tips on what worked for you? Please don't suggest any methods that involve hitting her or using any electric collars or prong collars.
Just to be clear, we are NOT planning on getting rid of our dog. We just want to prepare ourselves in the best possible way so the situation will work smoothly. Adding a new baby to our lives is stressful enough as it is!
Thanks in advance for the advice!