rierie26
Shiny_Rock
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- Apr 20, 2009
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So I currently live and work in the Bay Area. I used to live with my boyfriend here but he was transfered overseas last fall by his company, so now I live alone. I don''t have any family that lives close by to me (although a flight is only a couple of hours, so they''re not THAT far).
The issue is that I''m really unhappy living here. I have friends and aquaintances and keep myself busy (I''m also going to school part-time), so it''s not really loneliness although I''m very close to my family and do miss them (and my boyfriend obviously). Even when my boyfriend was here, we already knew that we didn''t want to settle down here or even stay here for a long time. We want to be able to live in a place that''s a bit quieter, not as crowded, is safer and cleaner, with a decent cost of living (unlike here) and where we could forseeably buy a house one day without having to shell out a ridiculous amount of money to do so and I''m also kinda paranoid about the big earthquake that''s supposed to hit soon.
The problem is that I have a really good job and while I like my job (most days), I don''t love my job enough for it to overcome the general feeling of "I don''t want to live here anymore" that I''m experiencing. I''ve been with the company for almost 3 years. It pays well, is with a well-know MNC, has relatively good benefits and has a good corporate culture.
The issue is that as much as I''d like to throw in the towel and move back home to Seattle, I don''t want to give up this job seeing as how the economy''s bad and it really is good money.
I''m really tempted to ask if I can just work remotely from home (meaning Seattle) seeing as I''m in a satellite office and my interaction with my boss/co-workers in the same division is through phone and email anyway.
Has anyone experience this before or am I just being a whiny baby who can''t tough things out? What would you do? If you would ask to work from home, how would you go about asking to do so?
Thanks! Sorry for the length of my post!
The issue is that I''m really unhappy living here. I have friends and aquaintances and keep myself busy (I''m also going to school part-time), so it''s not really loneliness although I''m very close to my family and do miss them (and my boyfriend obviously). Even when my boyfriend was here, we already knew that we didn''t want to settle down here or even stay here for a long time. We want to be able to live in a place that''s a bit quieter, not as crowded, is safer and cleaner, with a decent cost of living (unlike here) and where we could forseeably buy a house one day without having to shell out a ridiculous amount of money to do so and I''m also kinda paranoid about the big earthquake that''s supposed to hit soon.
The problem is that I have a really good job and while I like my job (most days), I don''t love my job enough for it to overcome the general feeling of "I don''t want to live here anymore" that I''m experiencing. I''ve been with the company for almost 3 years. It pays well, is with a well-know MNC, has relatively good benefits and has a good corporate culture.
The issue is that as much as I''d like to throw in the towel and move back home to Seattle, I don''t want to give up this job seeing as how the economy''s bad and it really is good money.
I''m really tempted to ask if I can just work remotely from home (meaning Seattle) seeing as I''m in a satellite office and my interaction with my boss/co-workers in the same division is through phone and email anyway.
Has anyone experience this before or am I just being a whiny baby who can''t tough things out? What would you do? If you would ask to work from home, how would you go about asking to do so?
Thanks! Sorry for the length of my post!