MichelleCarmen
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Okay, DH and I only do stockings. If we buy a gift, it''s always a big ticket item we share. (This year, it''s the boat.) The rest of our money goes to kids'' presents & their stockings.
Then we have ALWAYS given gifts to all the family members up until about 2 years ago. The problem is for the last 5+ years NONE of the family gave gifts to us even though we gave to them, so we said screw it.
It''s become super awkward because all the ladies in the family give each other gifts EVERY year and exclude me from that tradition and they make it a point to open them right in front of me (they''ve done this for YEARS even though I''ve given them stuff in the past - they never even say thanks). I always feel terrible and because I tend to be a bit overemotional, I almost cried last year because they left me out. One family member gave out beautiful pottery to all the ladies. She handed DH a box of chocolates. Low-quality ones.
So, should I ask DH to give me a gift so I have something to open in front of everyone or sit there again and feel like an idiot again this year?
Thoughts? Anyone else encounter this?
Then we have ALWAYS given gifts to all the family members up until about 2 years ago. The problem is for the last 5+ years NONE of the family gave gifts to us even though we gave to them, so we said screw it.
It''s become super awkward because all the ladies in the family give each other gifts EVERY year and exclude me from that tradition and they make it a point to open them right in front of me (they''ve done this for YEARS even though I''ve given them stuff in the past - they never even say thanks). I always feel terrible and because I tend to be a bit overemotional, I almost cried last year because they left me out. One family member gave out beautiful pottery to all the ladies. She handed DH a box of chocolates. Low-quality ones.
So, should I ask DH to give me a gift so I have something to open in front of everyone or sit there again and feel like an idiot again this year?
Thoughts? Anyone else encounter this?