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DH and I talked more today about how to do this. We really like the idea of a card so she isn't stuck with a wad of paper money to keep track of and sort through. A PIN is a must so that it has some security and we can cancel if she loses it. Something to carry it in her front pocket securely but discreetly.
Right now, our plan is to set up an account for her at the bank. We will both be on the account so we can add money and monitor, but she'll be on the account and have a debit card. NO overdraft so she has a fixed amount.
We'll add some amount before she goes (I'll see if I can find out what others are doing) and she has that to get what she wants.
She's having enough trouble losing stuff that we don't feel good handing her cash but we have been wanting her to get practice working with a budget and managing a bit of money. We'll see how she does with this and then consider adding some amount every month so that she has a bit of her own money to do what she wants (within reason). I've been talking with her about choices and how you can buy lots of little things or hold on to money and wait to buy something nicer.
This also lets us have something in place that she can take on the other trips through the year too.
Plus:
Reminder of checking that pants have pockets.
How to not buy something so huge it can't get home.
Don't spend it all on the 1st day.
Right now, our plan is to set up an account for her at the bank. We will both be on the account so we can add money and monitor, but she'll be on the account and have a debit card. NO overdraft so she has a fixed amount.
We'll add some amount before she goes (I'll see if I can find out what others are doing) and she has that to get what she wants.
She's having enough trouble losing stuff that we don't feel good handing her cash but we have been wanting her to get practice working with a budget and managing a bit of money. We'll see how she does with this and then consider adding some amount every month so that she has a bit of her own money to do what she wants (within reason). I've been talking with her about choices and how you can buy lots of little things or hold on to money and wait to buy something nicer.
This also lets us have something in place that she can take on the other trips through the year too.
Plus:
Reminder of checking that pants have pockets.
How to not buy something so huge it can't get home.
Don't spend it all on the 1st day.