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Shiny_Rock
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Hi everyone, it's a pleasure to be greeting you and I hope you all find yourselves in good health.
I'm in a very difficult situation here at home, it's been a separation that was imminent, and I was hoping some of you might be able to help me out. A few weeks ago, my parents had a very severe argument all because my mother wouldn't let my father take my car to the casino since she needed me to take her to run some errands. After that argument, he removed all of his clothes and personal belongings from the master bedroom and started sleeping in the guest room. He's the primary owner of our home and knows that paying the rent is his responsibility, my mother pays for the other half of the expenses including gas, car insurance, power, etc. On Friday of last week he got paid, and that payment was to remain in their joint account for rent. That very same night I logged into our online banking and noticed that his FULL payment had been withdrawn from the account. He has not been home very much since the argument, and my mother has not been able to catch him at home to ask about the payment.
Forward to today - While on break at work I called him since he wasn't returning my mother's phone calls. I asked him whether he was going to pay rent this month, and he simply said, "No, I can no longer pay rent" and hung up the phone. My mother is willing to pay the rent, but wants him to transfer the house title to her name to prevent him from selling our home, as he has threatened to do many times before. We are not sure however, how to convince him to transfer the title, or what steps we would have to take in order to do this. Our loan is with JP Morgan Chase, so if anyone has any idea what our best options are in this case, please leave your thoughts.
My mother has taken the precautions of removing him from their joint savings account, and wants him to leave if he does not plan on paying rent or helping with utility bills.
I'm in a very difficult situation here at home, it's been a separation that was imminent, and I was hoping some of you might be able to help me out. A few weeks ago, my parents had a very severe argument all because my mother wouldn't let my father take my car to the casino since she needed me to take her to run some errands. After that argument, he removed all of his clothes and personal belongings from the master bedroom and started sleeping in the guest room. He's the primary owner of our home and knows that paying the rent is his responsibility, my mother pays for the other half of the expenses including gas, car insurance, power, etc. On Friday of last week he got paid, and that payment was to remain in their joint account for rent. That very same night I logged into our online banking and noticed that his FULL payment had been withdrawn from the account. He has not been home very much since the argument, and my mother has not been able to catch him at home to ask about the payment.
Forward to today - While on break at work I called him since he wasn't returning my mother's phone calls. I asked him whether he was going to pay rent this month, and he simply said, "No, I can no longer pay rent" and hung up the phone. My mother is willing to pay the rent, but wants him to transfer the house title to her name to prevent him from selling our home, as he has threatened to do many times before. We are not sure however, how to convince him to transfer the title, or what steps we would have to take in order to do this. Our loan is with JP Morgan Chase, so if anyone has any idea what our best options are in this case, please leave your thoughts.
My mother has taken the precautions of removing him from their joint savings account, and wants him to leave if he does not plan on paying rent or helping with utility bills.
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