MichelleCarmen
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Hi everyone,
Just curious here...we have a neighbor who I've chatted with occasionally. At the start of the summer twice he made comments about a specific grocery item I was buying and how it was bad for the environment and I thought it was odd that he was tracking my shopping (watching me unload my groceries) and that he'd have the nerve to comment to me to my face on it, but I just tried to make light of it b/c it was just food and he tends to drink a couple of beers when he's outside so his judgment might be a bit impaired.
We've also gone on a vacation, camping, & hiking and he'd seen me unloading the car and asked me where we went and since these were trips, I'd say, not quite thinking it was that big of a deal. Then things started to get a bit weird because my husband had surgery and was recovering in the house and he hadn't seen my dh in a week, and it came out that he had told the neighbor by us that we had broken up or divorced (something like that) and I had to correct him. That kind of irked me. Then about a month later, I was doing the garbage and he came out, with a drink in his hand, and asked me why my husband works long hours and asked how come he never sees my kids (who were inside the house, but he didn't know), and I was realizing I was having to defend my family's activities and decided that I would avoid him. He also said that the next time he sees my dh, he would intercept him to talk to him. I went into the house and told my DH about the guy asking where everyone was, etc., and my dh told me he never talks to the guy because he wants to avoid him so he runs into the house when he gets home.
Well, I went out of town for two days, came home for two days and then was gone for two days working long hours and on one of those days, the neighbor DID intercept my dh and asked him where I was.
Does this sound creepy like nosy or like a stalker? He's living w/a woman & she has kids, so he's not a single man at home and he works but gets home early and he stays outside until around 7 so I cannot come home or leave w/out him seeing me come/go.
I didn't start literally jumping out of my car & racing into my house until I found out he had asked my dh where I was.
Does it sound like I'm over-reacting? I've never had a person confront me AND my dh about where we've been on a continual basis to where it's when I'm WORKING and he's asking where I am so it creeps me out.
Just curious here...we have a neighbor who I've chatted with occasionally. At the start of the summer twice he made comments about a specific grocery item I was buying and how it was bad for the environment and I thought it was odd that he was tracking my shopping (watching me unload my groceries) and that he'd have the nerve to comment to me to my face on it, but I just tried to make light of it b/c it was just food and he tends to drink a couple of beers when he's outside so his judgment might be a bit impaired.
We've also gone on a vacation, camping, & hiking and he'd seen me unloading the car and asked me where we went and since these were trips, I'd say, not quite thinking it was that big of a deal. Then things started to get a bit weird because my husband had surgery and was recovering in the house and he hadn't seen my dh in a week, and it came out that he had told the neighbor by us that we had broken up or divorced (something like that) and I had to correct him. That kind of irked me. Then about a month later, I was doing the garbage and he came out, with a drink in his hand, and asked me why my husband works long hours and asked how come he never sees my kids (who were inside the house, but he didn't know), and I was realizing I was having to defend my family's activities and decided that I would avoid him. He also said that the next time he sees my dh, he would intercept him to talk to him. I went into the house and told my DH about the guy asking where everyone was, etc., and my dh told me he never talks to the guy because he wants to avoid him so he runs into the house when he gets home.
Well, I went out of town for two days, came home for two days and then was gone for two days working long hours and on one of those days, the neighbor DID intercept my dh and asked him where I was.
Does this sound creepy like nosy or like a stalker? He's living w/a woman & she has kids, so he's not a single man at home and he works but gets home early and he stays outside until around 7 so I cannot come home or leave w/out him seeing me come/go.
I didn't start literally jumping out of my car & racing into my house until I found out he had asked my dh where I was.
Does it sound like I'm over-reacting? I've never had a person confront me AND my dh about where we've been on a continual basis to where it's when I'm WORKING and he's asking where I am so it creeps me out.