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I've noticed that boundaries vary tremendously in various families.
Some parents or siblings may criticize career or spouse choices, financial decisions, hairstyles, clothing, smoking, weight issues.
A grandmother may criticize, excuse me..."help"... how her daughter is raising her own kids.
In one family I know the parents drop in on their adult married children without calling and don't even knock when they come in.
I know they hate it but wouldn't dream of mentioning it.
The list goes on and on.
Can you offer an example of your boundaries being violated by a family member?
Have you ever ended a relationship over disagreements on boundaries?
When is it love and caring, and when is it unwelcome intrusion?
Some parents or siblings may criticize career or spouse choices, financial decisions, hairstyles, clothing, smoking, weight issues.
A grandmother may criticize, excuse me..."help"... how her daughter is raising her own kids.
In one family I know the parents drop in on their adult married children without calling and don't even knock when they come in.
I know they hate it but wouldn't dream of mentioning it.
The list goes on and on.
Can you offer an example of your boundaries being violated by a family member?
Have you ever ended a relationship over disagreements on boundaries?
When is it love and caring, and when is it unwelcome intrusion?