ihy138|1478961374|4097415 said:momhappy - thank you for your reply! It's funny, when I tell people in person they kind of just blankly stare for a second and then say "are you serious?" I hate it. I would love to avoid that whole thing. I'm telling my friends in person as I see them. However, we have mutual friends that like to come hang out all the time and we haven't told them yet. I think a group message to them (there are 5-6 of them) will help them and help us get it out on the table. It will allow me to see what he is telling them as well. I don't want to give him the chance to spin this. Thanks for your advice - onward and upward!
Yes, I agree! Divorce is hard enough, so if you can make it a little easier in some small ways (like putting it out there in a joint email with your soon-to-be ex to reduce the awkwardness), then that's another small win that can keep the momentum moving forward.
Good luck with all of it and keep us posted.