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My DH and I have been trying to get pregnant for about 6 months and have had no luck. I knew this would be a possibility because I have PCOS. Since I have known for years that pregnancy might never happen for us, adoption has always been something we were ok with. Several weeks ago the mother of a former student of mine came to me with an unexpected opportunity. She used to work for an adoption agency and a birthmother that she has worked with before called to tell her that she was expecting. This woman came to us and offered us the chance to adopt this baby.
On the one had we are thrilled (knowing that this is is a once in a lifetime opportunity) but on the other hand I am apprehensive b/c we don't know for sure that I can't get pregnant. We haven't been trying long enough to know for sure. I think that I am just having a hard time with the idea that our first baby may not come to us the way I had always envisioned. Deep down I feel like we were going to adopt at some point anyway, why does the timing bother me so much?
Has anyone else felt this way? If you have adopted what kinds of things did you worry about? I just want to know that I am not crazy.
On the one had we are thrilled (knowing that this is is a once in a lifetime opportunity) but on the other hand I am apprehensive b/c we don't know for sure that I can't get pregnant. We haven't been trying long enough to know for sure. I think that I am just having a hard time with the idea that our first baby may not come to us the way I had always envisioned. Deep down I feel like we were going to adopt at some point anyway, why does the timing bother me so much?
Has anyone else felt this way? If you have adopted what kinds of things did you worry about? I just want to know that I am not crazy.