Hello, Pricescopers! Thanks in advance for your advice, I'm a new member to Pricescope but have been reading for a few weeks and I've learned so much already from you all. I hope this is the right place for this question. I apologize for my rambling and overuse of parentheses here, the sixth paragraph (tried to bold it) has the main questions.
My boyfriend and I have just started looking at engagement rings. I have to say I'm so glad he didn't try to choose one on his own, because I have a lot of ideas about what I want, and my taste isn't super-conventional. I think he's a bit stunned because I had never talked about what I wanted, and have sent him 2 insanely long emails about details of what I want since we talked about rings last Sunday.
Anyway, I'm trying to decide if I want a sapphire (my birthstone) or a diamond. For size, looking at 1-2 carats for a diamond, likely 2 to just over three for a sapphire. I wear a 4.25, so that should look plenty large enough on me. I like a large range of sapphire colors— classic cornflower blue, Montana blue-green, violet-blue (though I don't want to constantly explain it's not a tanzanite, think that would be a problem??), lighter greenish blue, periwinkle and light blue. I am not opposed to the slight greyish tone of many montana sapphires, but find the darker ones too murky. I do like the idea of a stone from the USA (ethical mined or antique is important to me whatever the source). I really like the idea of the stone having a blend of colors or flashes of different shades, but not a straight-up color-change, if that makes sense. At Natural Sapphire Company's website (I understand some people on here are not fans of NSC, still deciding how I feel about potentially purchasing from them), I'm most into the ones they describe (under unique sapphires) as ocean blue, steel blue, bluish-green (and vice versa), ice blue and mint, as well as the cornflower and slightly lighter blues (in the blue sapphire section). I have blue/green/grey eyes so I think that might be a fun thing to match
I like cushions, rounds and ovals on me, and those seem to be the most common shapes for natural and unheated sapphires at least, but I am finding myself more and more drawn to Old European Cut Rounds (OECs) and Old Mine Cut Cushions (OMCs) in diamonds, as well as newer iterations of these, such as the August Vintage ones (any other modern versions you like?). I really love the depth and big almost unpredictable flashes of color (I guess fire and scintillation?) on these old style cuts, and just love how they look so different next to the modern round brilliant.
Out of curiosity, I tried to look for OEC and OMC sapphires, and the only ones I've found are this one below—for 170k on sale!—which is both entirely too huge and sadly out of my price range (hoping to spend under 10k, but could definitely go up to 15, maybe 20k).
http://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/sapphires/c-5-blue-sapphires/p-31717-cushion-blue-sapphire-b4297/
And this one, also too big, which has sold:
http://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/sapphires/c-5-blue-sapphires/p-48922-cushion-blue-sapphire-b298/
Looking at antique rings, I see a lot more sapphire cabochons or faceted sapphires being used as accents/side stones, so it makes sense that these don't seem to be available.
So does anyone know of a source for OEC and OMC sapphires, or excellent cutters that would help me with this? I am concerned about cutting from rough because I am very sensitive to color... I have not gotten a chance to look at loose sapphires yet, hence the large color range under consideration, but would hate to have someone cut for me and then find the color 'off' in some way. Do you think OECs and OMCs are not ideal cuts for sapphires in the color ranges or with the properties I am interested in highlighting? Any thoughts on the direction I should go with my search? If you had a hard time choosing between a sapphire/ruby/etc and a diamond, can you tell me about what tipped it whichever direction? Any regrets? I worry that I might get sick of the color of a sapphire (but then again, I wear a small darker one my parents gave me almost every day).
Thanks again!
A bit more about what I'd like to do for the ring, in case it might be helpful:
I know I want a bezel-set solitaire, most likely in platinum or palladium, with a hammered or more matte finish, with maybe a few accents of diamond or other gemstones on the band. I really like the work of Malcolm Betts (haven't seen in person) and Todd Reed (so beautiful in person, but I would definitely want to customize with my own stone), and I also really like the Tiffany Bezet setting (though I would have someone else create an 'inspired' setting... found some good ideas on PS). I'm just going to link to a few of these I like to show what style I mean:
Wrong metal and stone color (I really wanted it originally but I don't look great in yellow gold, and my gentleman isn't excited about a black diamond) but I love the patina and the way the diamonds are set into the band on this ring:
http://www.barneys.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-BNY-Site/default/Product-Show?pid=00505027420935
Love this Malcolm Betts, wouldn't it be beautiful with an OEC or OMC and the band of the previous one?
https://erikawinters.squarespace.com/jewelry-blog/bridal-crush-rose-cut-romance-by-malcolm-betts
I think Todd Reed's halos are so unique, I tried one on a few days ago. Pretty much the only halo I'm considering:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr481-pd-sq-17
Similar to the last with an oval cut:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr481-pd-oval-rc
I really like the elegance of the TIffany Bezet, and how light gets in through the sides too.
http://www.tiffany.com/Engagement/Item.aspx?mcat=148203&groupSKU=GRP10046&origin=engagement&search_params=param+0/0/0/4006/0
I was surprised by the beauty of this ring with a raw diamond halo and band from Todd Reed in person, but I'm not sure it's a top contender:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr405-pd-19
I'd love your thoughts/concerns/etc on any of the things (diamond/sapphire, cut, sapphire color, designs etc) I'm considering. I'm excited to finally be joining Pricescope!
My boyfriend and I have just started looking at engagement rings. I have to say I'm so glad he didn't try to choose one on his own, because I have a lot of ideas about what I want, and my taste isn't super-conventional. I think he's a bit stunned because I had never talked about what I wanted, and have sent him 2 insanely long emails about details of what I want since we talked about rings last Sunday.
Anyway, I'm trying to decide if I want a sapphire (my birthstone) or a diamond. For size, looking at 1-2 carats for a diamond, likely 2 to just over three for a sapphire. I wear a 4.25, so that should look plenty large enough on me. I like a large range of sapphire colors— classic cornflower blue, Montana blue-green, violet-blue (though I don't want to constantly explain it's not a tanzanite, think that would be a problem??), lighter greenish blue, periwinkle and light blue. I am not opposed to the slight greyish tone of many montana sapphires, but find the darker ones too murky. I do like the idea of a stone from the USA (ethical mined or antique is important to me whatever the source). I really like the idea of the stone having a blend of colors or flashes of different shades, but not a straight-up color-change, if that makes sense. At Natural Sapphire Company's website (I understand some people on here are not fans of NSC, still deciding how I feel about potentially purchasing from them), I'm most into the ones they describe (under unique sapphires) as ocean blue, steel blue, bluish-green (and vice versa), ice blue and mint, as well as the cornflower and slightly lighter blues (in the blue sapphire section). I have blue/green/grey eyes so I think that might be a fun thing to match
I like cushions, rounds and ovals on me, and those seem to be the most common shapes for natural and unheated sapphires at least, but I am finding myself more and more drawn to Old European Cut Rounds (OECs) and Old Mine Cut Cushions (OMCs) in diamonds, as well as newer iterations of these, such as the August Vintage ones (any other modern versions you like?). I really love the depth and big almost unpredictable flashes of color (I guess fire and scintillation?) on these old style cuts, and just love how they look so different next to the modern round brilliant.
Out of curiosity, I tried to look for OEC and OMC sapphires, and the only ones I've found are this one below—for 170k on sale!—which is both entirely too huge and sadly out of my price range (hoping to spend under 10k, but could definitely go up to 15, maybe 20k).
http://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/sapphires/c-5-blue-sapphires/p-31717-cushion-blue-sapphire-b4297/
And this one, also too big, which has sold:
http://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/sapphires/c-5-blue-sapphires/p-48922-cushion-blue-sapphire-b298/
Looking at antique rings, I see a lot more sapphire cabochons or faceted sapphires being used as accents/side stones, so it makes sense that these don't seem to be available.
So does anyone know of a source for OEC and OMC sapphires, or excellent cutters that would help me with this? I am concerned about cutting from rough because I am very sensitive to color... I have not gotten a chance to look at loose sapphires yet, hence the large color range under consideration, but would hate to have someone cut for me and then find the color 'off' in some way. Do you think OECs and OMCs are not ideal cuts for sapphires in the color ranges or with the properties I am interested in highlighting? Any thoughts on the direction I should go with my search? If you had a hard time choosing between a sapphire/ruby/etc and a diamond, can you tell me about what tipped it whichever direction? Any regrets? I worry that I might get sick of the color of a sapphire (but then again, I wear a small darker one my parents gave me almost every day).
Thanks again!
A bit more about what I'd like to do for the ring, in case it might be helpful:
I know I want a bezel-set solitaire, most likely in platinum or palladium, with a hammered or more matte finish, with maybe a few accents of diamond or other gemstones on the band. I really like the work of Malcolm Betts (haven't seen in person) and Todd Reed (so beautiful in person, but I would definitely want to customize with my own stone), and I also really like the Tiffany Bezet setting (though I would have someone else create an 'inspired' setting... found some good ideas on PS). I'm just going to link to a few of these I like to show what style I mean:
Wrong metal and stone color (I really wanted it originally but I don't look great in yellow gold, and my gentleman isn't excited about a black diamond) but I love the patina and the way the diamonds are set into the band on this ring:
http://www.barneys.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-BNY-Site/default/Product-Show?pid=00505027420935
Love this Malcolm Betts, wouldn't it be beautiful with an OEC or OMC and the band of the previous one?
https://erikawinters.squarespace.com/jewelry-blog/bridal-crush-rose-cut-romance-by-malcolm-betts
I think Todd Reed's halos are so unique, I tried one on a few days ago. Pretty much the only halo I'm considering:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr481-pd-sq-17
Similar to the last with an oval cut:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr481-pd-oval-rc
I really like the elegance of the TIffany Bezet, and how light gets in through the sides too.
http://www.tiffany.com/Engagement/Item.aspx?mcat=148203&groupSKU=GRP10046&origin=engagement&search_params=param+0/0/0/4006/0
I was surprised by the beauty of this ring with a raw diamond halo and band from Todd Reed in person, but I'm not sure it's a top contender:
http://www.toddreed.com/#!/products/rings/trdr405-pd-19
I'd love your thoughts/concerns/etc on any of the things (diamond/sapphire, cut, sapphire color, designs etc) I'm considering. I'm excited to finally be joining Pricescope!