hikerchick
Brilliant_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 29, 2006
- Messages
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FI and I are thinking about not registering. Here is why:
We are both in our 30s and have accumulated lots of "stuff" already.
We don''t have a real NEED for anything though most of our "stuff" is second hand, hand me downs, etc we are not lacking anything.
Also, we are seriously considering taking 7 months away to hike the Appalachian Trail together and are in fact trying to cut down our stuff so as not to store everything. Registering will just add stuff and we''d rather not have this.
We have lots of friends and family who would never NOT give us a gift because atleast in our culture it is considered tacky to not give a gift. Most real close family just give money as I usually do these days. Usually, the money thing is just word of mouth but some still give gifts of their choosing.
Has anyone NOT registered? What happened? Did you get a lot of stuff you didn''t want? Did people just give you money? If you got lots of unwanted stuff, what did you do with it all? Is it bad manners to just donate the gifts you don''t need, can''t use, etc to a charity?
Also, I have heard of down payment registries. How do these work?
Sorry, lots of questions here but there seem to be so many rules and it seems people get readily offended or think poorly of those not on the up and up on this stuff.
We are both in our 30s and have accumulated lots of "stuff" already.
We don''t have a real NEED for anything though most of our "stuff" is second hand, hand me downs, etc we are not lacking anything.
Also, we are seriously considering taking 7 months away to hike the Appalachian Trail together and are in fact trying to cut down our stuff so as not to store everything. Registering will just add stuff and we''d rather not have this.
We have lots of friends and family who would never NOT give us a gift because atleast in our culture it is considered tacky to not give a gift. Most real close family just give money as I usually do these days. Usually, the money thing is just word of mouth but some still give gifts of their choosing.
Has anyone NOT registered? What happened? Did you get a lot of stuff you didn''t want? Did people just give you money? If you got lots of unwanted stuff, what did you do with it all? Is it bad manners to just donate the gifts you don''t need, can''t use, etc to a charity?
Also, I have heard of down payment registries. How do these work?
Sorry, lots of questions here but there seem to be so many rules and it seems people get readily offended or think poorly of those not on the up and up on this stuff.