FutureMrsMRS
Rough_Rock
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So, I''m making headway on possible venues and caterers. And I even found a place that I really like that allows your own food & alcohol (which we''d prob just do beer and wine and not have to pay for security). I''ve come up with a reasonable budget for ceremony, venue, reception, dress, invites (I think - I''m going DIY), and favors (again DIY).
I''m building a website because I like that idea, and though I know 1/2 of this "must have" stuff is just the industry talking.
Questions:
a) We''re not having a bridal party, do we really need a rehearsal dinner?? Since the only involvement will be Dad walking me down the aisle, should we do this "rehearsal" and then maybe me, FI, my kids, and my parents go out for dinner??
b) Again, since we''re not having a bridal party, does the whole bridal shower thing go out the window? Unless a friend designates herself to plan it??
c) We''re getting married out of state, in October. We will be down in NC in June. Is that too late to lock in a caterer? I would DEFINITELY want to sample the food before hand, but I of course don''t want to deal with someone not being available on my date because we cut it close. The venue I like best is 2 hours from my parents so I''m looking at caterers in the Greensboro area. I don''t want to ask my mom to drive that far to taste food
(and yes, I implicitly trust her judgment in doing the tasting! If we can''t find an affordable caterer, she''s going to do the cooking).
I feel so overwhelmed! And my closest friends are 6 hours away. They''re doing what they can to help but man!
Thanks all!
I''m building a website because I like that idea, and though I know 1/2 of this "must have" stuff is just the industry talking.
Questions:
a) We''re not having a bridal party, do we really need a rehearsal dinner?? Since the only involvement will be Dad walking me down the aisle, should we do this "rehearsal" and then maybe me, FI, my kids, and my parents go out for dinner??
b) Again, since we''re not having a bridal party, does the whole bridal shower thing go out the window? Unless a friend designates herself to plan it??
c) We''re getting married out of state, in October. We will be down in NC in June. Is that too late to lock in a caterer? I would DEFINITELY want to sample the food before hand, but I of course don''t want to deal with someone not being available on my date because we cut it close. The venue I like best is 2 hours from my parents so I''m looking at caterers in the Greensboro area. I don''t want to ask my mom to drive that far to taste food
I feel so overwhelmed! And my closest friends are 6 hours away. They''re doing what they can to help but man!
Thanks all!