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Shiny_Rock
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- Oct 29, 2006
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I have been trying to get ahold of the priest who is marrying us, yet he's never there and he never calls back. We needed to figure out times for the wedding. When we originally talked, we asked what the latest time we could START the ceremony was, and he told us around 2 or 2:30, because we need to be out before the mass later. We told him that we would want to take that late time as we didn't want to start the reception very early, and didn't want to have any time other than driving in between the two.
Well FI just called to say that he finally got ahold of him, and now we have to BE OUT of the church before 2 because there is another wedding going on!!!!!! This really has me quite irritated as we've been trying to get ahold of him to firm up our times and he never responded. It also irritates me that we told him originally that we wanted to start as late as possible as we didn't want to start the reception early. What makes it worse is he's family!!!!! Ugh.
So now I don't know what we're going to do. I absolutely do not want to start our reception that early, nor did I want the wedding ceremony that early. For me, I'd rather just switch churches because we don't GO to that church anyways, we were getting married at this specific one because it was important to FI for this priest to marry us.
What am I supposed to do now?! It's not like I can call and complain to him that we had discussed how we wanted the later time for our wedding and he never called us back. I mean I could, but what would be the point? Theres nothing that can be done about it since theres already another wedding in there now, and it's not that couples fault he messed it up!
I just feel like crying right now because theres all this other stuff going on right now and thats just icing on the top. I didn't even WANT this type of wedding and I'm so fed up right now I just feel like canceling the whole thing and eloping. Of course I wouldn't since FI won't elope, but it doesn't change how I feel at this moment!!!!!!!!
Ok, I needed to vent there. But seriously, what am I supposed to do now?
Well FI just called to say that he finally got ahold of him, and now we have to BE OUT of the church before 2 because there is another wedding going on!!!!!! This really has me quite irritated as we've been trying to get ahold of him to firm up our times and he never responded. It also irritates me that we told him originally that we wanted to start as late as possible as we didn't want to start the reception early. What makes it worse is he's family!!!!! Ugh.
So now I don't know what we're going to do. I absolutely do not want to start our reception that early, nor did I want the wedding ceremony that early. For me, I'd rather just switch churches because we don't GO to that church anyways, we were getting married at this specific one because it was important to FI for this priest to marry us.
What am I supposed to do now?! It's not like I can call and complain to him that we had discussed how we wanted the later time for our wedding and he never called us back. I mean I could, but what would be the point? Theres nothing that can be done about it since theres already another wedding in there now, and it's not that couples fault he messed it up!
I just feel like crying right now because theres all this other stuff going on right now and thats just icing on the top. I didn't even WANT this type of wedding and I'm so fed up right now I just feel like canceling the whole thing and eloping. Of course I wouldn't since FI won't elope, but it doesn't change how I feel at this moment!!!!!!!!
Ok, I needed to vent there. But seriously, what am I supposed to do now?