lliang_chi
Ideal_Rock
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Hi all,
I figure there are some really smart finance-y/lawyer people here so I thought I''d ask. Plus there''s gotta be people who are in my situation, so I''m polling for previous experience.
Background:
I bought a condo a few years ago. This month FI moved into my place. Theoretically we''ll be splitting all the expenses (mortgage, bills, etc) 50%, paying for everything from a joint account. Theoretically because it hasn''t been set up yet.
So anyway, my rationale is, since FI will be paying the mortgage, it''s only fair that he goes on the title too. And if he''s on the title, it''s only fair that he shares the responsibility of the mortgage too. So I call my mortgage company and I need to refi to put FI on the mortgage. And they suggested I don''t refi because I got a good rate that I probably wouldn''t be able to get again. But I can call my title company and add him to the title. But then he gets 1/2 my equity (which I''m okay with since we''ll be getting married) but without any of the mortgage debt. Plus the mortgage might help him a little with taxes in April.
So my question is: Is there some legal contract that we can draft up that says, I''ll put James on the title, but he''s co-responsible for the mortgage. And/or if he is on the title then he doesn''t get my equity until we''re married?
Any suggestions on what I can do?
I figure there are some really smart finance-y/lawyer people here so I thought I''d ask. Plus there''s gotta be people who are in my situation, so I''m polling for previous experience.
Background:
I bought a condo a few years ago. This month FI moved into my place. Theoretically we''ll be splitting all the expenses (mortgage, bills, etc) 50%, paying for everything from a joint account. Theoretically because it hasn''t been set up yet.
So anyway, my rationale is, since FI will be paying the mortgage, it''s only fair that he goes on the title too. And if he''s on the title, it''s only fair that he shares the responsibility of the mortgage too. So I call my mortgage company and I need to refi to put FI on the mortgage. And they suggested I don''t refi because I got a good rate that I probably wouldn''t be able to get again. But I can call my title company and add him to the title. But then he gets 1/2 my equity (which I''m okay with since we''ll be getting married) but without any of the mortgage debt. Plus the mortgage might help him a little with taxes in April.
So my question is: Is there some legal contract that we can draft up that says, I''ll put James on the title, but he''s co-responsible for the mortgage. And/or if he is on the title then he doesn''t get my equity until we''re married?
Any suggestions on what I can do?