Mashira
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FF and I are in the process of slowly piecing wedding things together although we are not engaged yet. We have already booked the caterer and we are thinking of booking the reception hall soon. Before we dive head first into this planning thing, I have a few questions for those of you who are already married.
FF and I are on a rather strict budget because we will be paying for the wedding ourselves. We expect to have anywhere between 50-65 guests. That being said, I am trying my very best not to get caught up in the, "It's YOUR day, you MUST have yadda yadda.." I don't believe just because it is 'my day' I should pay an arm and a leg for something I won't care about a year from now anyway.
So the question is: What parts of your wedding do you regret spending on? Did you pay hundreds of dollars for invitations, and looking back, think you could/should have saved that money? Did you get an ornate five tier cake and later wish you had gotten something smaller? Did you pay thousands of dollars on video and photographs and then realized a smaller package would have been just fine?
Here are things I've already decided on:
Skipping 'Save the Dates' all together
DIY Invitations
DIY make-up
No videography
Please let me know! I'm very interested in your opinions!
FF and I are on a rather strict budget because we will be paying for the wedding ourselves. We expect to have anywhere between 50-65 guests. That being said, I am trying my very best not to get caught up in the, "It's YOUR day, you MUST have yadda yadda.." I don't believe just because it is 'my day' I should pay an arm and a leg for something I won't care about a year from now anyway.
So the question is: What parts of your wedding do you regret spending on? Did you pay hundreds of dollars for invitations, and looking back, think you could/should have saved that money? Did you get an ornate five tier cake and later wish you had gotten something smaller? Did you pay thousands of dollars on video and photographs and then realized a smaller package would have been just fine?
Here are things I've already decided on:
Skipping 'Save the Dates' all together
DIY Invitations
DIY make-up
No videography
Please let me know! I'm very interested in your opinions!